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Submitted 335 days ago...

LilPinky81

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In Love With A Husband, Only He's Not Mine...

I've been seeing a guy for 3 years now. We never fight, have a great time together, can tell each other ANYTHING...Everything is PERFECT! Okay well ALMOST perfect, One problem is that he's married to someone who is not ME. I can't count the amount of times he's told me he loved me & how happy I've made him. But recently, with it being a "New Year" & all he's getting alot of pressure from co-workers about their "perfect lives of wedded bliss" & he's starting to feel guilty about his infidelities. The other night he made the comment that he wasn't sure if his "love for me" was more of a friendship kind of love or if it was "real love"...when many times before he's been the one to bring up leaving his wife, but always decided against it because there are 2 children involved. In fact HE was the one that said those 3 little words first; "I love you". I'm torn on what I need to do. Obviously I know that our whole relationship is "wrong" so to speak. I love him enough to let him go if I have to but I also love him enough & know that this feels right. So I want to fight for what I believe him. I believe in him, in us & of course in our relationship. It's obvious that the time has come for a decision to me made, I asked him what he wanted from me, & he said for me to be happy & he'd do whatever it took to see what I was. Does he not see that HE is the one who makes me happy?? th

 
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Submitted 329 days ago...

nikilatin

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Once a Cheater Always A Cheater. Once A Beater Always A Beater. They Only Change When They WANT To Change. Almost Never Change Though. It Will Happen To You Too. Please Get Smart.

 

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