I hate to bring it up, but if he cheats on his wife now, then he will do the same to you. Cheating is the ability in your mind to justify infidelity over the vowes you make. Find a new one who is unattached - it's a NEW YEAR and you can have a clean slate if you chose. It can only get worse - so severe ties and find someone who will make you their one and only because you deserve it!
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In Love With A Husband, Only He's Not Mine...
I've been seeing a guy for 3 years now. We never fight, have a great time together, can tell each other ANYTHING...Everything is PERFECT! Okay well ALMOST perfect, One problem is that he's married to someone who is not ME. I can't count the amount of times he's told me he loved me & how happy I've made him. But recently, with it being a "New Year" & all he's getting alot of pressure from co-workers about their "perfect lives of wedded bliss" & he's starting to feel guilty about his infidelities. The other night he made the comment that he wasn't sure if his "love for me" was more of a friendship kind of love or if it was "real love"...when many times before he's been the one to bring up leaving his wife, but always decided against it because there are 2 children involved. In fact HE was the one that said those 3 little words first; "I love you". I'm torn on what I need to do. Obviously I know that our whole relationship is "wrong" so to speak. I love him enough to let him go if I have to but I also love him enough & know that this feels right. So I want to fight for what I believe him. I believe in him, in us & of course in our relationship. It's obvious that the time has come for a decision to me made, I asked him what he wanted from me, & he said for me to be happy & he'd do whatever it took to see what I was. Does he not see that HE is the one who makes me happy?? th
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