Relationship

I have lived with my boyfriend for over 9 years. we have 2 kids together. i have stayed home to raise the kids while he went to school and worked. i had jobs but he would make me quit due to his job was more important and he made more money and did not want to pay for daycare. the problem now is he has decided to move out, has his own place now, but he does pay for my rent, as child support, just the rent, not the electric or gas etc. But the problem is i have no life, cant work, he wont help with daycare expenses, i have no car, i could catch a bus, but no money..he threatens to take the kids all the time if i dont do as he says. sometimes he makes me have sex with him just to do the laundry or get diapers for the baby. i do it, but not willingly. my kids do need clean clothes and diapers. im wondering how to get away from all this. isnt there someone or some place that can help me get him out of my life in this way. i want him to see his kids, but i do not want to have to continue to live by his rules just cause i cant pay the rent. please help me. he degrades me in front of the kids, and makes me his slave. there has to be someone who can help me...please...

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Submitted 356 days ago...

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I live in norfolk virginia..im trying to move away from here to williamsburg virginia where my family is. they are trying to help me, but have little themselves and no room in their home..im scared to go to a shelter because of the kids, i dont want them to experience a shelter..but im really going to have to buck up soon cause i applied for custody yesterday and now my boyfriend is saying he's moving back in our apartment and kicking me out..he is trying to take my kids...i just want legal custody and he can have visitation, i dont want to keep their father from them, just from me..he scares me on a daily basis, and has controlled my life long enough...i wish i knew where to turn..i went to social services, they gave me shelters to call, tanf to apply for.but i have to leave here soon!! like yesterday...im so scared.

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