The wait for section 8 housing is too long. you need out now. the best thing for you to do is go apply for every kind of assistance you can get. in my state, you can get food stamps to buy groceries, welfare for your bills, and some people can even get temporary cash assistance. i applied and get my child care paid for by the government. then you can get a job, buy a car and get by till you find somewhere else to live, away from him. also, when the government sees how much money they're having to put out for you, they may raise his child support. also, in my state, i can move into an income based apartment. they make sure each of your children has their own bedroom, and it's only 10% of your gross monthly income. that way when you do get a job, you can move away from him, so he can't bother you or threaten you anymore. you just have to be strong honey, that's the only way he wont be able to hurt you anymore.
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I have lived with my boyfriend for over 9 years. we have 2 kids together. i have stayed home to raise the kids while he went to school and worked. i had jobs but he would make me quit due to his job was more important and he made more money and did not want to pay for daycare. the problem now is he has decided to move out, has his own place now, but he does pay for my rent, as child support, just the rent, not the electric or gas etc. But the problem is i have no life, cant work, he wont help with daycare expenses, i have no car, i could catch a bus, but no money..he threatens to take the kids all the time if i dont do as he says. sometimes he makes me have sex with him just to do the laundry or get diapers for the baby. i do it, but not willingly. my kids do need clean clothes and diapers. im wondering how to get away from all this. isnt there someone or some place that can help me get him out of my life in this way. i want him to see his kids, but i do not want to have to continue to live by his rules just cause i cant pay the rent. please help me. he degrades me in front of the kids, and makes me his slave. there has to be someone who can help me...please...
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