First off, does the father want the the child?
You seem to be getting bashed, & I really do not understand why.
The baby's interest should be first! The baby deserves a chance to be raised with love & caring!
If, the mother nor you can do that, then by all means, see if the father can give this child a chance at a wonderful life that it deserves!
It takes a strong person to admit they cannot take care of a child & to relinquish custody. Please look into adoption & give this child the chance it deserves, many people r able to do what you cannot do.



