Relationship

I have lived with my boyfriend for over 9 years. we have 2 kids together. i have stayed home to raise the kids while he went to school and worked. i had jobs but he would make me quit due to his job was more important and he made more money and did not want to pay for daycare. the problem now is he has decided to move out, has his own place now, but he does pay for my rent, as child support, just the rent, not the electric or gas etc. But the problem is i have no life, cant work, he wont help with daycare expenses, i have no car, i could catch a bus, but no money..he threatens to take the kids all the time if i dont do as he says. sometimes he makes me have sex with him just to do the laundry or get diapers for the baby. i do it, but not willingly. my kids do need clean clothes and diapers. im wondering how to get away from all this. isnt there someone or some place that can help me get him out of my life in this way. i want him to see his kids, but i do not want to have to continue to live by his rules just cause i cant pay the rent. please help me. he degrades me in front of the kids, and makes me his slave. there has to be someone who can help me...please...

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Submitted 353 days ago...

tinart

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God bless you all for caring about someone you dont even know! i am applying for things the best way i can for now..he broke my cell phone the other day!! dang..but my mother is helping me when she can drive down..she lives an hr. away..i get foodstamps..now i just need some help with daycare..im trying to find out about rent help, there is an apartment close to here..i hate to take my 5yr old out of her school..trying to make this easy on her tool..she does love her daddy..and he's not that bad of a father when he decides to come around..anyway, again thanks and i will let you know whats up..thanks for your big hearts..the world needs more people like yall..

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