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Erin649

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Chat Cheating?

My fiance' and I have been togeather for almost 6 years. We laugh, we play, and we get eachother. He is truly my best friend. We have our tiffs now and then, but we always work it out. Though in every OTHER way he is very good to me, I have come to realize that whenever I'm not home he spends time chatting with other women online, or having cybersex. He even has a webcam, which I have now hidden from him...I've NEVER SEEN him use it, but I know why he has it. I have confronted him, and explained to him that this hurts me. I told him when we first started discussing marriage, that I would never be ok with it. He tells me that it's all "Just chat" and not of the sexual nature. That's completely bogus. I guess what I really want to know is if this is a serious enough issue to consider it cheating, and what more can I do to put a stop to it without attacking him? I want to handle this as harmoniously as possible. I'm also curious if I'm wrong to spy? I don't want to invade his privacy, but I can't trust him to tell the truth about this. I KNOW he loves me, and he would be devastated if I ever left him. I just don't know what to do..HELP PLEASE!!!

 
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Submitted 338 days ago...

airforcemom

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Use someome else's computer, & see if you can lure him out for a date! Be prepared to dump him if he shows!! He will tell you this was the 1st time he ever met anybody, NOT!!!

 

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