Ok for the past few days we have been chatting, all very amicable...... but i dont know where i am? she says she loves me, she calls me pet names etc, so now i am confused and feel like backing off..... i keep thinking that i can deal with the ex but i know i can't, not until she has dealt with her feelings. i do love her but do not want to be 2nd in her thoughts (and love) so i have told her that i think i need space too, which i do.....
was this a good move?
