You have 2 options...the first would be to talk to him and let him know that his custody orders state that he is to take the children on such & such a day. And advise him that it is not fair for the other children to be left behind and he should be bonding with them together and not seperatly. Tell him (depending on how you feel) that if he would like special 1 on 1 time with each child than you will allow a seperate day once a week for him to take turns rotating between the children and he can take that child for an hour or 2. Im not sure how you wouuld feel about that, but if his reasoning for not taking the kids all together is because of an attention issue, that could help resolve the problem. Otherwise the children should not be seperated. You can not keep the children from him all together. If he doesnt want to take the children, he unfortunately can not make him take them. On the other hand you can file a motion with the court holding him in contempt and have the judge clarify his visitation.
