All good suggestions for sure, but right now you dont want to hear what you should do you, want to hear that the way your feeling is valid. im here to tell you, YOU ARE RIGHT! the woman you promised to love for the rest of your life betrayed you in the worst way. you gave your heart and soul to try to make a woman happy only to have it thrown in your face. the trust you had, the sharing of feelings( not an easy thing for men in any situation) mean nothing to her because of her actions. she totaly F!@ed you over not only taking your pride but your job as well. your embarrassed because by now your colluiges at work probably know. i dont envy the headach you will feel from the anger or the weight you will loose from the stress. all i can say is i feel for you. your anger must be controlled however. this will only give her validation for her actions. you know she is wrong, why give her justification for action. right now, the best thing to do is run it out,, excersise till you drop to the floor and there are no more tears left in your eyes. this causes a "runners high" seritonin will release in your brain and you will feel better. exhausted but better. you will be able to think a little more clear when you cant spend energy on anger and a funny things will happen. you step away from the situation a little and you may actualy see the signs have been there for many months. a clear head will help you decide if she is worth fighting for or just cutting bait and moving on. You cant make her do anything she doesnt want to do so its a waste of time trying. it will piss you off even more. you can only control you. believe that and things will be a little easier. Just remember. you are not the first one to have this happen too. seek out others who have been there. it makes it easier. it did for me.
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Well its Over, My Wife has cheated with my Boss. I really want to hurt her. What Should I do?
I never thought anything like this could ever happen to anyone. I really didn't get along with my boss either to make matters worst. So this is what extreme hatred is -- I have never had this felling toward someone before.
I know why my boss could never look me in the eye and I know why he treated me bad. I am terribly disguisted, hurt and about to burst. I have lost my job, my wife and dignity. I never thought an emotion can physically hurt. My wife has done a terrible thing which can never be forgiven, she has stripped me of my manhood. I cannot let her get away with this. What I am going to do, what am I going to do, what am I going to do.
My head hurts and I am exhausted from feeling this way. Please please talk to me I don't want to do this.
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