My Bisexual Boyfriend is a Sexaholic

Ok, im a guy and im Bi. Im 27. I met my boyfriend who is very closeted eight months ago and he is 21 and very nice and intelligent but immature.

I came out of the closet for him and I changed my entire life. He has made almost no changes for me.

In the beginning he would show me an enormous amout of affection and he would take the bus to see me everyday...he would bring me presents, he would kiss me all the time ( without me asking him) he would want to spend the nite at my house.... now he is becomming more distant and he wont kiss me or hug me unless I beg him...?

He always telles me he is hot or tired.

He hates doing everything I want to do... Movies, Roadtrips,sports,malls,bowing,beaches,casinos,boat tours...etc And when I beg him to go with me he acts miserable the entire time and it ruins my time.

He tells me that he wants to go to a bathhouse...he wants us to have threesomes all the time because hes 'horny and young' so I have to get dragged to a bathouse and have sex with him and these strangers....I am so frustrated because I dont want to do it....but he says "thats what interests me" ok.....he is a sexaholic and a nympho.... I dont call it equal when I want to go to a movie and he doesnt....and he wants to go to a bathhouse and I dont....he makes the comparason....how can he compare a bathouse and a movie theatre? WTF

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Clandestine1

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To be honest with you, he has self esteem problems. Many gay guys/men go through this. They sleep around A LOT because there is a constant need to feel attractive or wanted. They will tell you and probably themselves that is is just hormonal... and maybe half is... but it gets to a point where you realize it is a lot more than that.

Also, most of the websites gay guys use to chat or hookup on have a ton of porn ads. These ads feature the hottest guys ever made (lol) and you see them all night on your computer... well it doesnt take a rocket scientist to see that men in general are very visual. Gay men are no exception. Once you see that all day and night, you want to go hookup more and more.

I dont mean to be rude, but he is too young! Your still very young at 27, but a guy that is 21 is destined to go wild, gay or straight and play the field. Dont think something is wrong with you, because you are just fine... dont think he doesnt love you because I am sure he does, it is just his age and the constant need to feel loved/wanted by another man.

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