How can she get over him?

My sister is in a relationship with a man that she wants to get away from. He has cheated, lies a ll the time, disappears for a day of too at a time and still keeps telling her that he loves her and does not want to loose her. She is ready to give up but he wont leave and keeps begging her to work things out but even asside from the lies and the cheating, she just does not want to be with him. He wontwrok, he does nothing but hang out with crappy people and lies to her about where he is all the time. How can she get him to just let her move on? How can I help her?

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Submitted 188 days ago...

thegreek

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Unfortunately I went through this for 12 years before I did anything about it. I heard the same story, the drama, the story, the love, the forgiveness and believe I still went on. You can't change a person to see what you see. I didn't see even when dozen of people warn me, I laughed and I found out the hard way. Now I have moved on and I do not speak or correspond anymore. Y ou can try to talk but if it doesn't work, put your hat on the rack and let the person learn by theirselves. We can preach, but it doesn't matter, if theydon't understand it is a circle that goes around thousands of times. Good Luck

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