Sounds like mom is three puppies short of a pet shop. First you're going to have to find out how your little girl is doing in school socially and academically. If the report comes back poor, then file for permanent custody. She is way too young to determine her own sexuality and mom is wrong helping her along. Your daughter needs to be evaluated clinically and the county mental health service might be able to help. You can also enlist the aid of a clergyman who may have other resources. Gay or straight is a choice and not to be drummed into an eight year old brain which is exactly what you wife seems to be doing.

