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My boyfriend and I have been going for about a year and a half. Just abouta month and a week he moved. While he was moving he would tell me his new address all thought I have been to his new address two or three times. I do not know road very well and I can't drive yet. He can drive and know his around some places. I just got to the where I was at my highest point of love and I his family won't answer the phone when I call. All I want to know is what did I do, did I say something wrong, is it him, is with someone else, or was I too clingly (remmber he would not stand up for me when I ask him). I would leave him alone but I can't stop thinking of what did I do. I really did feel like he was the biggest thing I had to live for. He was my first boy friend I ever had. For years before him I was sad because of depression, when I would call him at knight. I would get up set, I would cry alot during and after, I would talk to him. Every time I would see him I would feel happy inside. I never was good at facial expessions. He has changed a little since I met him. I don't know why. I had to bottle up my feelings since he has not spoke to me for the three weeks of my limit of wating pacinetly, and then I go crazy where is he, I don't know because he did not tell me. We have alot of things in common we are the same age, we are born 2 days apart, I we act alike, we like some of the same things, we loved each other alot at some point. We both graduated high school, an

 
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Submitted 185 days ago...

ldsch

ldsch

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Everything you say in your question points to the probability that you behaved very obsessively about your boyfriend. In other words; yes, you were too clingy. Men don't like that at all. Women who behave that way look like little kids who never grew up. You say you graduated from high school which probably makes you 17 years or older. This is not the way a 17 or 18-year old is supposed to behave. You are acting like a 12-year old with her first crush. And that is exactly what you have, but you are much older than 12.

This boy did not love you. He became comfortable with you (at least in private), because you were convenient. Now that he's moved somewhere else, he will be exposed to new friends and girls who act much more grown-up than you.

This is your crush, not his. Get over it and move on. Just about every girl in the world has experienced this. They moved on the same way their boyfriends did.

 

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