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kammykate

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If I have sex before marriage will I be forever condemned by God?Will I go to hell?Will I be a bad person?

I am a born again Christian in my mid 20s.I'm still a virgin and I'm still not married surprisingly.I am starting to worry if I will ever get married.i'm 26 and still not taken.I want to experience sex, but I have no husband still. I don't want to die a virgin. I am even questioning getting pregnant out of wedlock.I really want children and I don't want to be an old unmarried lady with no children.I want to experience pregnancy.I want children really badly, but I want to have them out my body and i also want to adopt. SInce taking this human sexuality class this quarter, I have been really asking if I will be a bad person if I lose my virginity before marriage? I don't want to die a virgin and I'm still not married at the age of 26. I am human and I get desires.I know about birth control and contraceptives.I have learned a lot about female condoms in the human sexuality course.My parents want me to start keeping male and female condoms on me in case I get tempted. Will I go to hell just because I have sex before marriage? Will I be a bad person? What if I don't get married, I'm supposed to just sit here and be a virgin and die a virgin like Queen Elizabeth did? I want to experience sex. I get desires,esp. around my monthly cycle.My hormones be talking.I also want children.I don't want to die a single childless woman.What if no man comes along, can I get artificially inseminated? I want to experience pregnanty.Everyone seems to be having

 
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Submitted 182 days ago...

what2do

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If you really want to know, I wil say this: First of all, the bible does not teach a hell fire, It is in fact very clear that any use of the term hell is just mans common grave. In fact it states that the dead are concious of nothing (ecclesiastes 9:5). Second sex is taught in the scriptures as a privledge for mairried people (hebrews 13:4). Third you would be putting yourself in a bad relationship with God and with any hope for his promised gift of ever lasting life (psalms 37:9,10,11,29 1corinthians 6:9). Yes I know how you feel about not having sex. I wish I were married too. But in the mean time don't panic, if your only in your twenties, you have alot of time to get some. If you search for true religeon and live by Gods standards, well then you will have all the time in the world to get around to it.

 

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