First of all I think that it is admirable that you have abstand this long, therefore you can feel really good about yourself control. As A Christian Christ understood your temptation better than we could ever imagine or understand and he knew you would hold out aslong as you have. No one should ever tell you to or not. I think that decision is yours.To be born again is to except that forgiveness is what christ death was all about. You have to understand that people are much more critical than Christ ever will be. We are more critical of ourselves than he. To obstan until we find the person we want to marry and not have sex right away will eliminate the naturl consiquencies of lack of trust later in marriage. Pick the right man wait a while then decide married or not. Feel good about your decision no matter what. Comdom alway until marriage.

