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kammykate

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If I have sex before marriage will I be forever condemned by God?Will I go to hell?Will I be a bad person?

I am a born again Christian in my mid 20s.I'm still a virgin and I'm still not married surprisingly.I am starting to worry if I will ever get married.i'm 26 and still not taken.I want to experience sex, but I have no husband still. I don't want to die a virgin. I am even questioning getting pregnant out of wedlock.I really want children and I don't want to be an old unmarried lady with no children.I want to experience pregnancy.I want children really badly, but I want to have them out my body and i also want to adopt. SInce taking this human sexuality class this quarter, I have been really asking if I will be a bad person if I lose my virginity before marriage? I don't want to die a virgin and I'm still not married at the age of 26. I am human and I get desires.I know about birth control and contraceptives.I have learned a lot about female condoms in the human sexuality course.My parents want me to start keeping male and female condoms on me in case I get tempted. Will I go to hell just because I have sex before marriage? Will I be a bad person? What if I don't get married, I'm supposed to just sit here and be a virgin and die a virgin like Queen Elizabeth did? I want to experience sex. I get desires,esp. around my monthly cycle.My hormones be talking.I also want children.I don't want to die a single childless woman.What if no man comes along, can I get artificially inseminated? I want to experience pregnanty.Everyone seems to be having

 
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Submitted 182 days ago...

samis

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First of all I think that it is admirable that you have abstand this long, therefore you can feel really good about yourself control. As A Christian Christ understood your temptation better than we could ever imagine or understand and he knew you would hold out aslong as you have. No one should ever tell you to or not. I think that decision is yours.To be born again is to except that forgiveness is what christ death was all about. You have to understand that people are much more critical than Christ ever will be. We are more critical of ourselves than he. To obstan until we find the person we want to marry and not have sex right away will eliminate the naturl consiquencies of lack of trust later in marriage. Pick the right man wait a while then decide married or not. Feel good about your decision no matter what. Comdom alway until marriage.

 

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