Religion is man made, just as laws about chastiy. I think guilt is the worst punishment. I know chastity is mentioned in the Bible but so are concubines, which were not actually wives. The commandment: "thou shall not commit adultery" means against a husband or wife. Ofcourse no one grows up saying when I grow up I want to sleep around, or when I grow up I want an abortion, but things happen and there is no point in killing yourself over it. We all make mistakes but those are what growing up and learning is all about. God is a very forgiving God. There are so many worse sins than that. Ofcourse if you haven't already then I wouldn't suggest doing it.
