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kammykate

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If I have sex before marriage will I be forever condemned by God?Will I go to hell?Will I be a bad person?

I am a born again Christian in my mid 20s.I'm still a virgin and I'm still not married surprisingly.I am starting to worry if I will ever get married.i'm 26 and still not taken.I want to experience sex, but I have no husband still. I don't want to die a virgin. I am even questioning getting pregnant out of wedlock.I really want children and I don't want to be an old unmarried lady with no children.I want to experience pregnancy.I want children really badly, but I want to have them out my body and i also want to adopt. SInce taking this human sexuality class this quarter, I have been really asking if I will be a bad person if I lose my virginity before marriage? I don't want to die a virgin and I'm still not married at the age of 26. I am human and I get desires.I know about birth control and contraceptives.I have learned a lot about female condoms in the human sexuality course.My parents want me to start keeping male and female condoms on me in case I get tempted. Will I go to hell just because I have sex before marriage? Will I be a bad person? What if I don't get married, I'm supposed to just sit here and be a virgin and die a virgin like Queen Elizabeth did? I want to experience sex. I get desires,esp. around my monthly cycle.My hormones be talking.I also want children.I don't want to die a single childless woman.What if no man comes along, can I get artificially inseminated? I want to experience pregnanty.Everyone seems to be having

 
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Submitted 150 days ago...

Lessing119

Lessing119

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Religion is man made, just as laws about chastiy. I think guilt is the worst punishment. I know chastity is mentioned in the Bible but so are concubines, which were not actually wives. The commandment: "thou shall not commit adultery" means against a husband or wife. Ofcourse no one grows up saying when I grow up I want to sleep around, or when I grow up I want an abortion, but things happen and there is no point in killing yourself over it. We all make mistakes but those are what growing up and learning is all about. God is a very forgiving God. There are so many worse sins than that. Ofcourse if you haven't already then I wouldn't suggest doing it.

 

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