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kammykate

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If I have sex before marriage will I be forever condemned by God?Will I go to hell?Will I be a bad person?

I am a born again Christian in my mid 20s.I'm still a virgin and I'm still not married surprisingly.I am starting to worry if I will ever get married.i'm 26 and still not taken.I want to experience sex, but I have no husband still. I don't want to die a virgin. I am even questioning getting pregnant out of wedlock.I really want children and I don't want to be an old unmarried lady with no children.I want to experience pregnancy.I want children really badly, but I want to have them out my body and i also want to adopt. SInce taking this human sexuality class this quarter, I have been really asking if I will be a bad person if I lose my virginity before marriage? I don't want to die a virgin and I'm still not married at the age of 26. I am human and I get desires.I know about birth control and contraceptives.I have learned a lot about female condoms in the human sexuality course.My parents want me to start keeping male and female condoms on me in case I get tempted. Will I go to hell just because I have sex before marriage? Will I be a bad person? What if I don't get married, I'm supposed to just sit here and be a virgin and die a virgin like Queen Elizabeth did? I want to experience sex. I get desires,esp. around my monthly cycle.My hormones be talking.I also want children.I don't want to die a single childless woman.What if no man comes along, can I get artificially inseminated? I want to experience pregnanty.Everyone seems to be having

 
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Submitted 149 days ago...

beautifulgrl

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You won't go to hell for it, but sex before marriage is a sin! God has special plans for all of us, and if you spoil that He won't be pleased. It's only human to have desires, but be strong and overcome those desires. Realize that you are better than that, and God wants better for you. There's someone out there in this world for you, and when you find him, and get married it will be all the more special if you wait like God wants. God forgives us for all are sins when we ask, but it doesn't mean that we can disobey him if we like because we know we'll be forgiven. God knows all are thoughts, so we cannot plot against Him or hide anything from Him.

Hon, don't give into the temptations! You will be glad you didn't in the end, and so will God.

 

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