If I have sex before marriage will I be forever condemned by God?Will I go to hell?Will I be a bad person?

I am a born again Christian in my mid 20s.I'm still a virgin and I'm still not married surprisingly.I am starting to worry if I will ever get married.i'm 26 and still not taken.I want to experience sex, but I have no husband still. I don't want to die a virgin. I am even questioning getting pregnant out of wedlock.I really want children and I don't want to be an old unmarried lady with no children.I want to experience pregnancy.I want children really badly, but I want to have them out my body and i also want to adopt. SInce taking this human sexuality class this quarter, I have been really asking if I will be a bad person if I lose my virginity before marriage? I don't want to die a virgin and I'm still not married at the age of 26. I am human and I get desires.I know about birth control and contraceptives.I have learned a lot about female condoms in the human sexuality course.My parents want me to start keeping male and female condoms on me in case I get tempted. Will I go to hell just because I have sex before marriage? Will I be a bad person? What if I don't get married, I'm supposed to just sit here and be a virgin and die a virgin like Queen Elizabeth did? I want to experience sex. I get desires,esp. around my monthly cycle.My hormones be talking.I also want children.I don't want to die a single childless woman.What if no man comes along, can I get artificially inseminated? I want to experience pregnanty.Everyone seems to be having

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Egress375

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Jesus did say that fornicators and adulterers and homosexuals would not inherit God's Kingdom, but he then said "That is what some of you were" speaking to his disciples saying but you have been washed clean. There is hope after sin, but that doesn't mean you should run out and get yourself laid. Your conscience can be a real problem afterwards, condemning you for a long time, even effecting your relationship with you Husband in the future. I speak from experience, you may judge yourself harsher than our true judge Christ Jesus would. Many times when we worry about finding a mate we find it difficult to do so, maybe because we may act desperate unknowingly to us, but others may pick up on it. when I stopped looking I suddenly found a girl I couldn't let go of, the key I feel was that I wasn't looking. I was concentrating on more important things, like serving God, and working on my own inner qualities that would make me more attractive to others, and God.

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