Well it sounds like your wife is unsure of her feelings and is being honest with you about that. Seeing each other sometimes can be a good thing,couples split and remain friends while trying to work things out. The thing that concerns me in this is the fact that you already are going to councling and she wants to get settled into her apartment first. Then while continuling to see each other you start to lose commuacation,then you find she is not being honest with you about what she has found out about how she feels and that is not a good thing if she cannot tell you. Then your starting to not trust her these are all negative signs for getting back together. You might want to give yourself and her space. Talk to her and try to decde where you both want this to go. Give yourselves a month of councling and then get together for dinner and just talk see how your doing. She may find she misses you to much and want to come back home, and if she feels the same after a month of not seeing you then you will have to decide if you want to continue in the relationship. It does not wotk over nite but you should see some signs withih a month.
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Whats the best chance to get her back?
My wife and i have been together for 6yrs and married for 4yrs. I love her with out a doubt. She is no longer sure how she feels and needs time and space to figure it out. She says she loves me but doesn't know if she loves me how she should. So needless to say we are separating. I'm going to indivdual counseling and once she gets her new apartment squared away she will do the same. Things between us are friendly and we both have agreed to try to work things out. things have been rough for several months and we lost are ability to communicate effectively. During that time she figure a few things out and neglected to tell me. I didn't know what was going on so i began questioning everything she did. This drove us apart even more. I'm dealing with this the best i can but i don't know what to do. Should I believe that there is hope or just try to let it go?
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