I'm with LissaC on this one. Drop the bum and find someone who will make you happy. People are the way they are and the unfortunate tendency of frustrated partners is to believe they can change the other partner's behavior even when there is no credible evidence that is possible.
You deserve to be happy and that's not going to happen with this partner. Find another one.
This answer was edited by ldsch 157 days ago.
Reason: Slight change to answer.



