The first person you should talk to is your spouse, if he or she is willing to communicate. Tell them exactly how you feel. Definately talk to a minister or marriage counselor, by yourself, and with your spouse if he or she will go with you. It might be that you are experiencing depression, abuse, overwhelmed - whatever the case may be, do not walk out of the marriage until you are sure you have tried everything to make it work. If you're not happy with yourself, it will affect every one around you, so getting help to make yourself happy is the 1st step. Then you will be more inclined to make the right decision about your marriage. Good Luck to you.
