He's full of crap! You could continue this cycle a hundred times and still have grounds for divorce. Actually, it shows that you were willing to give him the benefit of the doubt. Just shows you more forgiving than alot of other women. He obviously thinks you are stupid and will believe anything he says. It just took you a while, but you are finally seeing through his lies. He is just trying to keep you from filing by making you think you are stuck or that you will look like a fool in front of the judge. There is no such thing as consentual as far as allowing him to continue in an adulterous lifestyle. Secure a lawyer. Move on with your life and ditched the loser. Susu



