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Salable319

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My husband and I have been seperated siince May 2008. I found out back in August 2007 that he was seeing his best friends wife. He told me he wanted to work our marriage out. Thanksgiving Day I found out that he was still seeing her. I left for the weekend and went to my sisters house. He called me all day begging and pleading not to leave him that he would stop seeing her. That same night ny niece saw him with her at a local nightclub holding hands and kissing her. When I confronted him he told me it was a waitress at a local restaurant where he is a policeofficer and that mu neise was lying about what she witnessed. I stayed with him. I left him again in January when I was told he was talking to another friends wife. as far as i know that was not true, so I went back home. In february I found out that he was meeting her for lunch and I started getting copies of his phone bill . He talked to her 90-100 times every month since July 2007. In February he swore to me he would have no contact with her what so ever. that he didn't love her even though he has told me many times hr does. I left him the first of May 2008 and we were trying to reconcile. He swore that it was over and he would have no contact. July 4th weekend he took her on vacation. I told him today I wanted a divorce. He says I can't get a divorce on the grounds of adultry because I have came back so many times. that it is more or less concintual. is this true

 
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Submitted 181 days ago...

ldsch

ldsch

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As usual, your husband is lying to to because he truly believes you're stupid. You don't need "adultery" as a reason for divorce; divorce is as easy as "unreconcilable differences." Even if you wanted to take him to divorce court on the grounds of "adultery," you probably couldn't prove it. Get a good lawyer and a divorce. The only reason your husband keeps lying to you is because he doesn't want to end up paying alimony. In my eyes, you deserve a LOT of alimony.

 

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