I hope things work out for you, I truly do. I do not think that divorce is the answer unless someones life, emotional or physical well being are at risk. I even believe that in certain cases of infidelity (I know this may not be the case here), but if the person is truly sorry, then it is worth working on. The adage about a leopard changing it's spots is true, but sometimes they weren't really a leopard, just someone who walked under the ladder while the painters were working! Continue to keep the lines of communication open, but at some point you need reassurance that you are not a safety net. If you pray, ask God to help you to say the right words without causing her to get defensive, but to give you clarity and discernment in where this is going. If you do not attend church, ask her if she would like to go sometime. Maybe that is what is needed to heal you both. I also think you should try some counseling together, even if it is just 2 times a month. Best of luck to you both. I will pray for you both. Susu
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Whats the best chance to get her back?
My wife and i have been together for 6yrs and married for 4yrs. I love her with out a doubt. She is no longer sure how she feels and needs time and space to figure it out. She says she loves me but doesn't know if she loves me how she should. So needless to say we are separating. I'm going to indivdual counseling and once she gets her new apartment squared away she will do the same. Things between us are friendly and we both have agreed to try to work things out. things have been rough for several months and we lost are ability to communicate effectively. During that time she figure a few things out and neglected to tell me. I didn't know what was going on so i began questioning everything she did. This drove us apart even more. I'm dealing with this the best i can but i don't know what to do. Should I believe that there is hope or just try to let it go?
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