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drake

drake

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Whats the best chance to get her back?

My wife and i have been together for 6yrs and married for 4yrs. I love her with out a doubt. She is no longer sure how she feels and needs time and space to figure it out. She says she loves me but doesn't know if she loves me how she should. So needless to say we are separating. I'm going to indivdual counseling and once she gets her new apartment squared away she will do the same. Things between us are friendly and we both have agreed to try to work things out. things have been rough for several months and we lost are ability to communicate effectively. During that time she figure a few things out and neglected to tell me. I didn't know what was going on so i began questioning everything she did. This drove us apart even more. I'm dealing with this the best i can but i don't know what to do. Should I believe that there is hope or just try to let it go?

 
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Submitted 123 days ago...

drake

drake

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Thank you for your advice. I've never been a real religous man but I would say more spiritual. I have found comfort in praying though. I just wish I knew where she was coming from. I understand her need for seperation. I have also come to the conclusion that in a way she is spoiled and I did that. She is use to me giving in to her. Not to say that she got everthing she wanted but more emotionally I gave in to her way to frequently. Without getting into too much detail I'm almost certain at this point that she does love me as a wife and that things will work out. I guess I believe she is either in denial of her feelings or confused about her feelings. I guess either way its tough playing the waiting game. Each day seems to bring something different and I thank god that I have my friends and family through all of this. Thanks again for that advice.

 

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