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AlabamaGrl

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Why can't my boyfriend show affection?

I feel I am a very attractive woman but I have a horrible self esteem due to my boyfriend not wanting to show any affectionate feelings towards me. All his friends think I'm gorgeous and other men I work around - but the one who needs to notice me and have affection for me doesn't.

When we are out in public he is always checking out other women - even ones not as attractive but always younger. I just can't understand and neither can the friends I have that are guys. They state that they don't understand how he can keep his hands off me.

I'm not sure if it is me, or if it is him? Should I dump him for a better guy, someone that does think I'm gorgeous and can't keep their hands of me? I know there aren't a shortage of guys around me.

 
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amanda86

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I feel exactly the same way...exactly, but, you have to realize how differently guys brains and thinking patterns are from girls', I know my man loves me, he's just un-affectionate, I'm not too affectionate myself, but would prefer a little more, got used to it now, just make sure he loves you....don't you think over-affectionate couples are obnoxious anyway?

 

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