Before you consider doing this I would first think about what would happen if one of you become ill and cannot take care of him. It sounds like a fulltime job. If you are willing to take on the job or helping with money, why not consider a nurse that is qualified to be with mentally ill children. There are organizations that can also help. This may be a very big strain on all and especially for the child. There are many organizations out there that provides the help to teach, take care of and help the parents with this issue. My cousin was mentally ill and received a lot of help from organizations for the mentally retarded. He know creates art out of rocks, paints them and sells them. His sisters are always around when he needs them and they look in on him regularly.
