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Submitted 195 days ago...

shyne

shyne

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Can I save my marriage?

My wife and I seperated a month ago and a week ago she left the state to go back home where she is from.. We have 2 kids together.. we seperated becuse i wasnt giving her attention and didnt see her needs.. Im going to counseling to get my stuff straight and to work on myself now.. She said she tried to file for divorce and she couldnt do it because she said its permanent, and she never thought that she would be divorced and she pictured her whole life with me. she said she wants time to be by herself and work on herself.. One day she is being fine and the next day she is being cold.. Im not telling her that i will change and i stopped begging her to come back, I am just trying to leave her alone and give her space and i call every night to talk to my kids.. i dont know if she has other motives or what? how do i get her to be honest with me.. On her myspace page she has a song called "Im over you" but then she is feeding me other garbage, by telling me she doesnt know what she wants yet and that she wants to go to counseling for herself and to try to forgive me for being an ass. what the heck is she doing? what if anything can i do and can expect? Is she doing this stuff because she is agry or what.? Can this marriage be saved? we have been married for 4 years now.

 
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Submitted 114 days ago...

MaryBethHS

MaryBethHS

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Sometimes it takes a rude awakening to shake things up a bit. What I mean by that is, if you file for divorce and she recieves the papers, it'll shake her up a bit and make her think twice about what she's doing. She may return to you and then again, she may not but either way, you'll have your answer in what ever action she takes. Good luck.

 

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