Anyone know of an Attorney for family problems that takes payment and works with low income person or families?

Try a mediator, the two of you need to act like adults for the sake of the child you both made together and love. From a divorced family, let me tell you, your fighting is destroying your childs emotional world. Many times the PO which are disigned to be a shield are used as a sword against the other parent, it keeps our police busy when they have other things that they should be doing. A father in your childs life is a good thing, the fact that he wants to be there is a good thing. As I tell my son, "the two of you made her, now put on your big boy pants and act like an adult and be a good father". I understand the anger and possibly hatred you may have for this man BUT he is your childs father and at one time you thought good things about him to become involved with him sexually, you picked him to be the father of your son. Relax, be more agreeable to visitation, let him be involved, you will find your life will be better and so will your son's. I am worried that your are going to spend thousands of dollars fighting in court and who knows maybe even loose custody, stranger things have happened. So save your money for your son's upbringing. Start with a mediator and calm down, attend support groups, it takes a villiage to raise a child and that villiage includes both parents and extended family from both sides. Good luck