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Submitted 374 days ago...

beautifulgrl

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Why am I crying over this?

Two kids from my school had a carwreck yesterday...and they died. I dont even know them! But Im so sad, and Im scared to death something like this will happen to me. How can I go from being perfectly fine and happy 24/7...to bawling over this. I feel like I need to do something, but I dont know what. Whats wrong with me? Why am I crying when I dont even know the people who died? I just...dont want it to happen to me. Im scared. What if its me next? I cant even imagine....

 
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Submitted 373 days ago...

Skoolie

Skoolie

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First off calm down, your reaction is normal.

second let me level with you. Death is never easy whether you really know the person or not. Life is delicate and its okay to be sad and feel,

Third It's okay to question mortality and to get upset over it. there is no wrong way to act. and just because you didn't know them personally doesn't me that you aren't affected, or you can't reach out to others who are hurt.

My best friend died when we was ten, and at that time I didn't understand what I was feeling. It took me years to understand,

You have the ability to help those in need, and to be empathetic. Its a hard time for everyone one, including you, but maybe going to the funeral and helping others will get you though this tough time.

 

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