You cant.
Me and my ex were together about a year and a half. He did the same things to me as you did to your girlfriend. It makes her feel unwanted, unloved, and taken advantage of. I loved him but i was tired of never having someone to come home to because he was gone and i had no idea why and i was tired of him pushing me away because he had to much stress. We are there to help you dont push us away. Somethings you just cant fix. I broke up with him and i have moved on. He cant fix what he did to me. It hurts really bad. If this was a recent problem (you pushing her away) she probably saw what was coming and ran (smart girl), but if this went on for a while then she needed to get away. You didnt see what you had infront of you. It was really YOUR mistake but you cant make it better. My advice? Leave her one good bye message about how much you love her and how you realize what you did and that your sorry and let her go. If yall are meant to be Love will find a way. I promise.



