Do you know what she likes to eat? Toddlers like to eat small amounts when they are hungry. Is she hungry when you are feeding her. Could you interest her in feeding herself with all the finger foods. She may not want you to spoon feed her, she may want to practice feeding herself.
There are some great finger foods out there or you could just cut up for her. Also you could distract her by having her have a favorite thing to hold in each hand while you feed her. But my guess is she wants to feed herself



