Pregnant and need help

I heard that if i got married to my current bf before the baby is born that it automatically my bfs kid and not my exs kid. is that true?

Hi Deigo

What a terrible situation to be in. I think firstly you need to speak to your landlord and tell him that he needs to remove you from the lease agreement. as babys dont come cheap so you dont wanna be spending unnesseary monies. 2nd your ex bof has all writes to his baby and legally you cannot take that away from him(unfortunately so) You may want to seek lagal advice from someone more experienced in the field of child custody! Good luck!

Its your life not his, yeah its his kid but you are the one that is going to be in the hspital giving birth to the baby. and the one that would be filling out the birth certifacate. you dont have to even put his name on it. I would not go back to him if he is a jerk for sure and it could cause stress and stress isnt good on the baby! he is just tell you he is gonna have to find a new girl because he is probably tryin to make you jealous. good luck tho! we'll keep you in our prayers

Go to the landlord yourself and ask him to remove you from the lease. Tell him that you no longer live there and want to be taken off.
As for the jerk situation, it sucks that you are in this but there really is nothing you can do other than deal with it if he is the father. It is true that you do NOT have to put him on the birth certificate, and you dont have to give the child his last name, she can have your last name, as you are not married to him.
Also, even if you do get married to your BF, your ex still has rights to his child. You should take him to court for child support, make him pay for the baby, you can do this without being with him.
And no, you do not have to be with him if he does not make you happy. As long as you are happy, your baby will also be happy.
Good luck to you and let us know if you need anything else.
-Lissa

You should diff. take a few friends w/ you to take to your old landlord and make sure someone is willing to call the cops if needed. As for the ex. had one just like him. this might take awhile, but 1 don't answer his calls, if he's a trouble maker make sure you got the police on speed dail. give the baby your last name don't put him on the birth record ( your the mother so you get to decide whose name is listed). if you push him away and he'll stay then you'll have nothing to worry about. but if he starts coming around after the baby's born make him take you to court. make him pay for a dna test, and request he has supervised visittion. ( i was the bigest bitch, and haven't heard from my ex in 10 yrs. it took 2 yrs. to get him to leave me complately alone the trick is to stay cool and a good support system.) good- luck

First of all contact the landlord ad advise him that you have moved out so that you will not be liable for any damage or past due rent or anything. Second of all yes...if you were to get married, any child born into the marrage is a product of the marriage so if you are married your husband is automatically the father and can go onto the birth certificate. But, your ex can fight it, take you to court and request a peternity test....which of course will then make him the father on the birth certificate and give him rights. I think that everyone has a right to have their child in their lives and it would be benificial for the child to at least know his biological father. But if you feel the guy really is a huge jerk and your choice is not to have him around than you need to make a choice that you can live with. Just make sure your not getting married to escape your ex and that you are getting into a marriage for love and a lifetime partner and not for convience. That would not be benificial for you or your baby...or anyone involved for that matter....especially if you get married, your ex fights you and now you are in a marriage your not happy with and your ex ended up with visitation anyway