You may want to think about getting a power of attorney, if you are going to be the ones to make all the decisions regarding medical care. Hopefully, she will grow to love this baby once it's born, if not before, then this whole conversation would be moot. I have to say, that I never was much for kids and babies either, but I have raised 2 and I wouldn't trade them for the world. I loved my son before I even had him. Maybe the same will happen to her. You're all in my prayers. Susu



