Why would my newborn only fuss the most at night

Oh, sweety, I know this is hard. It may just be your babies fussy time of day, wich is normal. But it may also be Colic, and as a mom of 4 who's eldest was a colicy baby, I feel for you immensly.

Your baby may have colic if she cries excessively over several days. Although this crying can occur at any time, it usually gets worse in the late afternoon and evening. Colic usually appears in the first few weeks after birth and the cause isn't known. It generally lasts for three to four months. Although colic isn't thought to be due to pain, your baby may look uncomfortable or appear to be in pain. Babies may lift their head, draw their legs up to their tummy, become red in the face and pass wind. Colic is not a serious condition. Research shows that babies with colic continue to eat and gain weight normally, despite the crying. If your baby doesn't, you should see your Pediatrician.
The main problem with the condition is the stress and anxiety it creates within the home. You may find it difficult to cope with the constant crying, so it's important for you to have support and to take a break now and then.
The cause of colic isn't known. In the past it was thought to be related to the digestive system. Painful wind may contribute to colic, but there is little evidence to prove colic is linked to digestive problems. Intolerance of lactose has also been identified as a possible factor, but evidence is limited.

There is no single medicine or proven cure for colic, but there are measures that may help. Different babies are comforted in different ways, and you may need to try a few methods to see what works.

Caring for a baby with colic can be very stressful, frustrating and challenging for any parent, particularly if it's your first child. If you feel overwhelmed, you should take a break if at all possible. Ask a partner or friend to take over for a while, even for just an hour or two.

If you can tell me where you live, I can give you a phone number for a help line and support group.

This answer was edited by Ruchele 323 days ago.

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Http://www.thelaboroflove.com/forum/homeo/colic.html

Yeah - I've discovered that all babies have a fussy time of the day! I know it can be difficult, but it's worth it right.

For colic, they say the baby crys around the same time for 3 hours for 3 days or more.

My baby on the other hand when she was little had reflux which is REALLY common. Breastfeeding is always good, but if she is on formula, you may want to try a different formula. We use the Enfimil LactoFree and that has ultimately helped. You can also do other things to help with reflux like:

Be sure baby is propped up when eating with here head higher than her tummy

Also prop her up when she sleeps. You can stick a pillow under one side of her matress so her shoulders are above her tummy.

Be sure your baby burps after every couple of ounces or after about 5 min if breastfeeding.

I know how frustrating it can be, and I remember thinking my baby won't like me because I can't make her feel better. But don't worry time passes, you gain more knowledge and they don't remember anything that young. Trying new things to see what works will help you feel more confident in your parenting! Good luck!