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Submitted 503 days ago...

felixsam

felixsam

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Baby i dont want...

A year ago, a free girl told me she was impregnated by me. I wanted no baby and asked for an abortion. She refused and has given birth to a baby boy. Now, I dont want to even see the baby or have any contacts. Should I ask for an adoption? Is it possible not to have my surname on his birth certficate? I sincerely want nothing to do with this child: What do you advise?

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Answer 1 / 7 - Submitted 503 days ago...

Skoolie

Skoolie

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Your child has a right to know who his biological father is. You can't just erase that information. You must take responsibilty for the child though means of child support. She can order a dna test if needed,

Once she marries a man he can adobt the child and give him his surname.

Looks like the kid won't be missing out on much. He deserves a better father than you anyway.

and we wonder why so many children have daddy issues.

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Answer 2 / 7 - Submitted 260 days ago...

bayleemommy

bayleemommy

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You make me sick. you laid down with her you should take care of your responsibilities! Your child deserves better you need to pay your child support and give your child a chance to know its father.

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Answer 3 / 7 - Submitted 260 days ago...

Trove882

Trove882

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If a paternity test shows you are the father, you will be on the hook for child support. Beyond that, you are not required to have any relationship with the child. If she gets married and the husband adopts the child, you will be out of the picture.

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Answer 4 / 7 - Submitted 259 days ago...

LissaC

LissaC

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That is your son, what is the matter with him that you want nothing to do with him?
Or should I say, what is the matter with YOU!?

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Answer 5 / 7 - Submitted 220 days ago...

sammiraye

sammiraye

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You can always give up your rights as a father. I am not sure if you will still be liable for child support though.

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Answer 6 / 7 - Submitted 213 days ago...

Lineman971

Lineman971

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If you don't want to be a father stop sticking your unprotected self into ppl, grow a brain and and take care of your responsibility. anyone can be a father but it takes a man to be a dad. you clearly are not a man

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Answer 7 / 7 - Submitted 15 days ago...

laura12

laura12

Beginner (30)

Its not the babies fault its yours and the girls thats what you get for sticking that thing in and thats what she gets for opening her legs!dont blame,i think you should just forgive and go see your baby boy im sure you feel something for him,of course he is your son.....dont be one of those jerks who just leaves babies and their girls behind,be there for him atleast you dont have to see the girl if you dont want to but its best if you just try to get along and see him,try to bond atleast or something maybe itll work out between you guys,something might just come up,you never know....

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