I would have a talk with your ex and simply tell her that you are paying alot in child support and you have also been buying other things for your child and that because you can't afford to it is causing a hardship on your relationship. Tell her if she does not start buying clothes and spending some child support on your daughter then you are going to have to go back to court. You can file a motion with the court to modifly the orignal order of your child support. you have your daughter at least 50% of the time you can get it lowered. you are not responiable to carry this load by your self,child support is for the child and to be used on the child for clothes food act,ect. She needs to start showing that the money is being spent on the child.


