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TINKER050106

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DIVORCE/CUSTODY

I FILED FOR A DIVORCE ON OCT. 5. 2007. BECAUSE I LEARNED MY HUSBAND HAD BEEN HIDING A LOT OF STUFF FROM ME LIKE MAXED OUT CREDIT CARDS, CASH ADVANCES, AND LOANS. HIS CAR WAS MISTERIOUSLY "STOLEN AFTER IT BROKE DOWN ON THE SIDE OF THE ROAD" TOO. ABOUT A WEEK LATER HE WENT TO JAIL. SINCE IN JAIL, HE TOLD ME HE HAS BEEN USING DRUGS (SMOKING CRACK) AND TOLD ME HE PAWNED HIS CAR. HE JUST GOT OUT OF JAIL 1/16/08 AND WANTED TO SEE OUR DAUGHTER. I TOLD HIM HE COULD SEE HER BUT HE HAD TO GO TO MY PARENTS TO SEE HER, HE WAS NOT TO LEAVE WITH HER. WELL, HE WAS MAD BUT WENT TO SEE HER ANYWAYS. HE SPENT 2 HOURS WITH HER AFTER NOT SEEING HER FOR 3 MONTHS. HE HASN'T CALLED TO SEE HOW SHE IS DOING OR TRY TO SEE HER AGAIN SINCE THEN. HE WANTS JOINT CUSTODY. I TOLD HIM AS LONG AS HE'S NOT DOING DRUGS THAT WOULD BE FINE. WE GO BACK TO COURT IN 2 WEEKS AND I THINK THE RIGHT THING FOR ME TO DO WOULD BE TO ASK FOR SOLE CUSTODY. THE WAY I SEE IT...HE CHOSE DRUGS OVER OUR CHILD AND MYSELF...I HAVE BEEN THE ONE SUPPORTING HER AND TAKING CARE OF ALL OUR BILLS SINCE HE WENT TO JAIL. WELL, MY QUESTION IS AM I RIGHT? I SHOULD ASK FOR SOLE CUSTODY? I MEAN, MY DAUGHTER IS #1, SHE IS MY WORLD!! I DON'T WANT HER TO BE AROUND THAT STUFF! PLUS IF HE REALLY CARED IF HE REALLY WANTED HER OR CARED TO SEE HER WOULDN'T HE HAVE AT LEAST SPENT OR TRIED TO SPEND MORE THAN 2 HOURS WITH HER OR CALL AND SEE HOW SHE IS OR BE TRYING TO SEE HER AGAIN SINCE HE HASN'T IN SO LONG? JUST NEED SOME O

 
 
 
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