Well if he is not to smart if he is paying you cash, without him not keeping any receipts he would have to pay it again,if you weren't an honest person. But it is good that he is paying. He has visitations but if he does not get the kids there is not much you can do. The court may allow him his rights but the courts do not inforce that he follows them. It is sad for the kids because they need their father. Also as for wanting him to help pay for any medical bills you would have to file a motion with the court to modifly the orignal order of child support and ask that they allow him to help pay,or increase the child support. You might also ask that the court have him make his child support payments directly to the court,and then the court will send you your payments though the mail. If he ever gets behind then it would be on file and would still have to pay it. This is really for both of your benifits.



