Well it will be up to the court to make the final ruling. The judge will take your feelings into consideration. It sounds like he has alot of serious issue's and the chances of him changing the orignal order is not likely,you just need to make the court aware of verbal abuse,that is imporantant. Depending how old the child or children are the court will also listen to how they feel about their father and their visits,hopefully he is not verbally abusive to the children. I would not worry to much,the judge is going to only do what is in the best interest of the child or children.




