Giving up Child Custody

Well, it's really sad that you are wanting out. I know that you did not want to have children with this lady, but you are putting all of the responsibility on her. Fact is, you had sex and you made a child. Now you want to punish a child for the mistakes the mother made. It's just sad. Sorry, just sad.

You can have your rights relinquished, but you'll have to convince a judge.

What is sad is the lengths women will go to to keep a man that does not want them. Not all the responsiblility is on her, but if it was that was her choice. I pay a great deal to support the child, because unlike the laws for women, there is nothing that protects a man from such underhanded situations. Yes, I had sex with her, I had sex with her for over a year, protected sex with a pill that she controlled. I had no reason to believe it was not protect, but found the only thing that wasn't protected was me and my rights not to father a child. She knew going in that I did not want a child. She tried to trap me with it and it didn't go her way. I have never even met the child. So, the child has not lost anything that it never had.

Sorry to hear that things went south with this relationship and she is doing what she is doing.

Jodi is right, you would have to convince the judge on it to reliquenish your rights to the child.

I feel sorry for the child. but the ex knew what you wanted and didnt want. I'm sorry to say if this is the way you feel and to stop paying support, then sign off on your rights.

Yes, Yes, I understand that everyone feels sorry for the child. When "SHE" decided to keep this child, she told me she didn't want anything from me, she wanted to keep the child and that "SHE" would gladly take all responsibility for it. That was until it was born, then it was all about the money. Truth is the child and the mother live better than I ever will. There are many things I cannot afford because I am supporting them, including a family of my own. She is playing the game with other men now and extorting money and sperm from others trying to increase her income level even more with another child. One even married her and wanted to adopt the child and she refused because she didn't want to let me out of my "responsibilities". She chose not to impregnate herself with his sperm because she thought he would force the issue of the adoption, so she dismissed him from her life and is actively looking for more donors. She knows she can get more child support if there are two separate fathers involved. This man was a good father to the child and it was the only one she had ever known. There is no way a man can sign away rights to a child, only a women. A man is considered a "deadbeat", pulled through a rat hole backwards and thrown in jail if he even considered not paying child support for any child a "court of law" says he is responsible for (heaven forbid the court not get their cut of my money). A women can just take the child anywhere and hand it over and be done with it, but why would they give up their greatest and most profitable asset(s)? I realize not all women are like this but there should be laws to protect men against the ones that are.....I have never met a more evil person, and I hope I never will again!!!