Here in Colorado, in foster care siblings of the opposite sex are allowed to occupie the same room as long as they have seperate beds, but not at home after the age of 3. None of that makes any sense to me at all. It's ok for the state, but not ok with the state, kind of a double standard. I did have a friend that went through a similar situation recently, and she built a divider wall, very simple, some sheets of plywood and hinges, and CPS considered that acceptable. The repairs they want are likely due to health, fire, or other hazzards they perceive in your home. I am going to refer you to a book and web site you will find very helpful.
Suzanne Shell has written many books which speak to contemporary parenting, and the unconstitutional intrusion of the STATE into private families.
Her latest book is Profane Justice (revised and updated edition)
Ms. Shell discusses spanking, CPS, jury nullification, and topics of interest
to almost any parent.
http://www.profane-justice.org/



