You do not have to except child support, you can turn it down and just set up custody and visitation. I would just go to court and have everything done there, that way later down the road, if someone gets mad at the other (believe me it will happen about something) there is legal paperwork stating that neither one of you wanted child support and signed off of it (this way no one can go back on the other for years of support, I have seen that happen!). When they talk about child support, that is when you both agree to no support being exchanged between the two of you and then they will just set up custody and visitation. hope this helps. Good luck to you!

