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missmykids

missmykids

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How to get custody of my sons after my ex wife's new marriage

My ex wife and I had 50/50 custody of my two sons ages 3 and 5 until my oldest started school this year. Then it went to joint with her having primary custody. She got pregnant by a soldier before our divorce was final and had his baby after we were already divorced and talk to him on the phone while he was deployed. She met the guy on the internet and spent one night with him when she got pregnant. Needless to say she barely knows him. He came home from deployment and she married him 2 weeks later and thinking that it would be good because she moved my children back to the area I live cause he is stationed and hoping that everything worked out for them I find out from her telling my new wife and her telling my mother that in the 30 days they have been married he has slapped my son on the mouth for telling him no, and butt and denied me the right to talk to my children by unplugging her phone. She called last week and said that her and her husband were fighting and that he was verbally abusive and mean to the kids and wondered if I could take them for a while. I had them for a week and then she bribed them to come home with her cause his boss told him that I could take them if she didn't have them and they want my childsupport. They are putting a price on my childrens head and I want custody. What do you think my chances are of getting them?

 
 
 
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Submitted 358 days ago...

Jodi-Mesa

Jodi-Mesa

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Poor kids! I see why you are concerned. If he is home now and you think that he is dangerous to your kids you can seek emergency custody and then try to have the custody reversed. Would the people who told you this be willing to tell the judge that. It's great that you want to protect your children. Good luck!

 

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Submitted 212 days ago...

tomturkey

tomturkey

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I won't lie the truth is it is very hard to take a child away from their mother. I think I would talk to your ex and see if she would be willing to let you keep the kids for awhile so that she can get her life in order. I am sure she is afraid of this man she was concerned enough to let you keep the children for a week. Her husband may be more concerned with the support than the mother. What is stated in your order of visitation? Are the CPS aware of this? You might want to report it when ever you see amark on your children the more evidence you have the better chance of going to court. Does your ex have family members who can help her sometimes it is easlier when we have support from our family to give us the strength to do what we know we have to. She differenlty needs help this guy is a bad apple. There are ageng's for abuse for family members she needs to contact one.

 
 

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