Well it is not normal for the two of you to let the 11 year old to sleep with you,and that would concern me,so I can see why if would upset the mother. What the two of you do in regards as to living together is not against the law. but she does have a right to step in if her child is sleeping in the bed with the both of you,and she could bring that up in court,and she could ask for supervised visits only and know over night stays. So I would consider getting her or him in their own bed,or not keep the child over night.


