It is the law that because you have joint legal custody that any and all records medical and otherwise are given to you. i dont know why she has dr. appts but if they are for a medical reason could he be taking her to a different dr. you can contact the court for mediation and they can make him give you records or he will be in contempt of court but at this stage in the game since she is already 17 taking her father to court for anything will make the child more angry at you. once she turns 18 you have no legal say so i would keep sending birthday cards and keep tying for contact with your daughtor. another alternitive would be to seek the courts for conseling with her before she reaches 18 and try and figure out what went wrong

