You don`t have to give him joint custody but he can take it to court. If this person has never harmed you in any way and you two can see eye to eye as responsiable adults why would it hurt you to share custody? The child should be your main concern and keeping him or her from the father may hurt you in the long run. I am a grandmother of a child whose father doesn`t have legal custody of his son and his father does want to be a good father but the mother makes alot of impossibles for the father. If a man wants to do the right thing LET him.



