Betsy, the laws vary from state to state on what age a child's choice is taken into consideration. Which state do you live in? I would start by contacting your county social services agency and talk with them. One thing you might also want to do is consult with a different attorney as you bring up some things that should definitely raise flags and give you an option for changing the custody arrangement. I know it's a long and tiring process but you're trying to do a good thing for you son.
Good luck.


