My Daughter married an A##-H**# and he will not let me see my GD

Right now what I would be worried about is the fact that your GD told you about being touched and touching the step father and you confronted them (did you really think they would tell you?!) You need to get on the phone and report this issue, even if it turns out not to be true, at least it has been looked into. This girl is showing the signs of something happening, the clinging to you is not just because she wants to see you, you are her safe haven, she is not crying and carrying on because she wants to stay with you, she is doing it because she doesn't want to go with them! Of coarse they are going to cut you out of her life, she told you what was being done to her and now you are a threat to them and if you can't see her, she can't tell you what is happening! Get on the phone today and tell them everything you said above in your letter, tell them you don't know for sure and be sure to tell them how your GD is acting. Please be the voice for this little girl, wouldn't you rather be safe then sorry?! You can also file for temp. custody until everything is settled (if they need to place her someplace). Go now and make the call! Best of luck to you! Please keep me posted.

Way ahead of your request I immediately called CPS and they treated me like I was the bad person in this. He is a sharp talker and dresser, I am sure he knew exactly what to say to them, since he can't stand me. My daughter, I don't know what he's done to her but, she refuses to communicate with me over this. I have two other children HE has certainly brought division between me and my daughter and now I there is no way of helping my Granddaughter. SOMEONE HELP!

Just keep telling people, someone will have to listen at some point. You just have to get your point acrossed to someone.. Call your local police department and see if there is something they can help you with. Good luck!

If you fear that your granddaughter is in danger, you can try to file for emergency custody with your county courthouse. IF her mom won't save her, then you should. Good luck!

Grandparents don't have any rights. However you can notifly CPS and file a report against him and tell them what your granddaughter has told you. They will go to the home and investagate. These are very serious alligations and the courts can place the child in your home or a family members home until this has been resolved. They will talk with the child and there are ways that they can get to the truth without the child being aware or afraid. Do this ASAP for your grandaughters sake.

I just noticed that you had put in that you did call the CPS, Don't let that stop you. Call again and ask to talk to someone above the last person that you talked to,manager. If that does not work file a police report. If anything happens to your grandbaby because they would not look into this or the police department ignores you this can cause both serious reprecautions to both.

Thank you for all your responses. I have done all that you have suggested I do and still nothing. My granddaughter is not dumb and I know if he attempts to try this again she will tell somebody. I called CPS my daughter is pissed at me and calls it HURT! she has no clue what it is to HURT! Only God can help her. I haven't given up.

E

Take her to a doctor and have a rape kit done on her. It's horrible to do but it can provide concrete evidence.

I don't have ANY contact with my daughter or my granddaughter. I have been done with! I know there are many of you out there who Pray...Please keep me and my children in prayer, I need the support of all you who have a loved one who is being dumb or brain washed by their significant other. Thank you ALL! ...I won't give up!

Elizabeth